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Bigger is not always better. If you’re looking for a discreet toy designed for targeted clit stimulation a bullet might just be your thing.

This one is called ‘Whole Lotta Love’ and comes with 3 speeds and 4 patterns to choose from.

The brand behind the bullet; So Divine, tells me that the toy was designed with sex-toy-beginners in mind. It’s easy to use, super smooth and in no way intimidating or off-putting, instead, it is actually rather cute. I think it would make for a nice introduction for someone who is new to the world of sex toys, whether you want it for yourself or to introduce some couple-play in your relationship.

A bullet can be surprisingly versatile witch furthermore increases its value for a beginner. It makes for nice foreplay on its own, but try to also hold it on your clit whilst having sex or maybe even in combination with other toys.

Your partner can use it when they are giving you oral sex. And if you are returning the favour to a man, try placing the bullet on his balls for a tickling sensation, or place it in your mouth whilst blowing him.

A way of enjoying your bullet hands-free is to place it in your underwear and then find a sitting position that allows you to grind yourself to climax. Maybe by straddling a pillow or two.

‘Whole Lotta Love’ is water resistant which means that you can also bring it into the shower with you for yet another way of enjoying it. But do not submerge it!


The overall look is neat and pretty. Black and rose gold make the bullet look sleek and modern which I like. It is a low-cost purchase and therefore it does have a slightly ‘cheap’ feel to the build quality but this should not be a deterrent, it is still a stylish piece.

‘Whole Lotta Love’ is 80mm long. It feels very smooth, and the rounded tip is great for pinpointed stimulation.

The bullet is not rechargeable which is a minus for me. I’m not sure how long the 3 included batteries will last, and I for one feel reluctant buying batteries nowadays.

Final words

As a toy for beginners the only downside to this product is the facts it runs on batteries. But it’s a great way to start experimenting with sex toys. If you already own a few toys, a bullet might not be your thing, but exploring new ways of playing with it can also bring back life to one of these you might have neglected.

For the low price of £10.99, it really is a fun gift to yourself or your lover. Get one here: