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You have probably all heard of these silicone vaginas. They come in a huge variety of designs, colours and shapes, and are made to make your solo sex as a man more fun. Fleshlight is the biggest brand producing the toys, and even for me who lacks a cock, they are weirdly intriguing.

So I bought one for my man to find out more about them. Fleshlight has a wide range of different high-quality silicone vaginas for you to choose from, each one with a unique pattern on the inside to stimulate you and feel ”like the real deal” You can also get a pocket mouth or butt if you will. And if you’re not into the whole ”detached body part in a jar” you can buy a transparent model that to me, looks more like a car part of some sort. OR you can get an alien version. Because why not right?

Anyway. Now we quite enjoy inviting our fleshlight into our bed at times, so let´s talk a little about ways to enjoy this toy.

Hot or cold

If you want your Fleshlight to be more life-like, adding some warmth to it helps. Take it out of its plastic case and wash it with warm water before use. You can also heat up your lube by letting the tube sit in warm water for a few minutes or simply warm it in your hands. DO NOT use boiling water!

If you prefer a cold feeling on a hot summer day you can chill your lube in the fridge before using. When I use the Fleshlight with my man it’s fun to switch between my warm mouth and a chilled pocket pussy to give him different sensations.

Take the case off

The plastic case is designed to stay on whilst you fuck your Fleshlight to keep the shape accurate. However, if you take it off you get another sensation since you can now control the strength of your grip around it. Without its case, you can also enter the toy from the other end since it’s hollow all the way through. Like this, you get to enjoy the pattern in a new way.

Or why now use your Fleshlight as a sleeve and let your cock penetrate it all the way through for yet another sensation.

Take it into the shower

Do you like masturbating in the shower? Well, you’re not alone. With a Fleshlight wall mount, you can attach your toy to the wall and use it hands-free. Remember that water-based lube will dissolve in water (duh!)- so make sure to place your wall mount so that you can enjoy a hot shower, but your fleshlight won’t. (Do not use silicone-based lube with silicone toys)

Next level shit

Did you also know that you can get a vibrating fleshlight, one that simulates a blow job and one that’s designed to help men who suffer from premature ejaculation by allowing them to control speed and penetration?

The options seem endless to this somewhat bizarre toy, and for me, it’s a thumbs up. Sex in a jar is fun!